My dearest friends,
Today is Valentine’s day, a day to celebrate love. I had actually planned to write one short write up for my blog about this day, but left the idea later. However, both of you are in my mind for the past few days and the previous night, I decided to write for you in my blog as a Valentine’s Day special.
Since this is a public forum I keep your identities as a secret. Therefore I’ve decided to address you as Mr. and Ms. as I’ve never addressed you in real life.
I’ve talked with you for ample time in the past week about what’s going on in your life. Both of you’ve told me your concerns and feelings. I still don’t know where you have reached! I know both of you ‘Love’ (It’s such a strong word) each other but confused and scared...
Both of you are confused and scared because of your past. Interestingly you’ve the same concerns about moving further in your love for each other. Your fear makes you blind of the real love that you feel.
Just imagine yourself in your college days. If you’d felt this love in those days, would you put it aside by being practical? You must’ve gone against the world to make it fulfilled. I know that times have changed and both of you are scalded with the unfortunate incidents in life. So many people have troubled you in life. But why do you hesitate when life tries to mend its austerity by bestowing the best people in your life?
As from my experience, life won’t give you many chances to find solace and happiness. If you don’t make a correct move at the correct moment, you might have to travel a long way as in peak hours of Bangalore traffic (sorry for the bad joke). Both of you wish this to happen, but think too much to complicate the issues.
I agree that this is your life and you’ve to think practically. But how much will you know about a new person if you want to get married to her/him? Both of you know each other for years! Both of you know each others' bright and dark sides. Both of you know that marriage won’t be a flower strewn path but will be pricked with thorns also. In that case, why don’t you try to cross the hurdles together to get united?
I know Mr. that you consider Valentine’s Day as just another day in a year. Yet, don’t you think that you can make this one special? Ms. I know that you always cherish some special days. I don’t know your view on Valentine’s Day but why don’t you have an open talk with him today? Now, if you’ve already planned something like that, I’m sorry! It’s not because I’ve asked him/her to do so. That shows his/her real concern to you.
So far, I’ve supported (or persuaded?) you. Let me confess that I’m not being nosy but concerned about both of you. Yes, I’ve a selfish motive too that I won’t lose you as friends after you get married. Now, if you ask me to stop this preaching, this is the last one from me.
Jokes apart, if you’ve decided to let go this love unnoticed, I may consider that as a right decision too. That’s again because; both of you each know each other well than I know you. You might have had an open talk and realized the real hurdles that cannot be removed from reaching your goal. There may be something that you cannot compromise to each other. Even then, I and Sreejith will be there for you as good friends. Whatever your decision may, we are there with you.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
Note: If anyone else other than the people mentioned above, happens to read this article, please feel free to pass your comments. But, I’m sure that I won’t disclose their identities and any more details :)
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